A shattered childhood, an adult who remains

I don’t remember the accident. I do remember the aftermath. At the hospital, adults talked about referrals, solutions, placement. And then Julien arrived. My mother’s brother. He didn’t ask for advice. He simply said no. No to strangers. No to being separated from me. No to being abandoned.
He drove me back to his place with the determination of someone who had no idea what he was doing, but was sure of one thing: he would stay.
Learning to love differently

Julien wasn’t affectionate at first. He was all silences, rough gestures, and overly strong coffee. But he learned. To carry me without hurting me. To defend my needs. To improvise.
He tinkered with handrails, spent hours on the phone, observing professionals to improve his own methods. He always positioned himself between me and the world.
When stares became harsh, when questions became too direct, he found the right words.
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