During our divorce trial, my husband showed no emotion as he sought to end our 20-year marriage. Moments before the judgment was read, my 8-year-old niece stood up and asked the judge to show a video of what she had witnessed at home, shocking everyone in the courtroom.

Tomorrow, Patricia Thompson and Amy would begin the process of documenting and recovering hidden assets that could total over a million dollars. Tonight, I would be grateful for the granddaughter who’d shown other children that protecting their families sometimes required paying attention when adults assumed no one was watching and speaking truth when adults preferred convenient lies.

One year after the foundation’s opening, I was preparing for our first annual gala when Emily rushed into the event planning office with a newspaper article clutched in her small hands and an expression of barely contained excitement on her face.

“Grandma Kathy, look, we’re famous!”

 

The headline read, “Foundation Led by Fraud Victim Helps 200 Women Recover $15 Million in Hidden Assets.” Below it was a photo of me standing outside our downtown office with Sandra Martinez and several clients who’d successfully challenged their husband’s financial deception.

“The reporter talked to lots of the ladies we helped,” Emily continued, reading from the article with growing pride. “Mrs. Thompson recovered $1.2 million that her husband hid in offshore accounts. Mrs. Peterson found out her husband had been stealing from her business for eight years. And Mrs. Williams discovered that her husband bought three houses she didn’t know existed.”

I read over Emily’s shoulder, marveling at the scope of what we’d accomplished in just 12 months. Two hundred women, $15 million in recovered assets, countless families where children had provided crucial testimony about financial conversations they’d witnessed.

“Emily, look at this part about you.”

The article included a sidebar titled “Young Heroes: Children Who Exposed Family Financial Fraud” that featured Emily prominently.

“Emily Stevens, now nine, was eight years old when she testified about secret conversations she’d overheard between her grandfather and his girlfriend about hiding money from her grandmother. Her detailed observations helped recover $1.9 million in fraudulent transfers and inspired the creation of the Katherine Gillian Foundation. Since then, Emily has become an informal mentor to other children whose observations have uncovered similar financial deception.”

“Grandma Kathy, does this mean other kids are doing what I did?”

“Exactly what you did—paying attention, asking questions, and helping protect their families from people who think children don’t notice important things.”

The phone rang before Emily could respond. Sandra’s voice was excited when I answered.

“Mrs. Gillian, Channel 7 wants to interview you and Emily for their weekend feature story about the foundation. They’re particularly interested in how children’s testimony has become crucial evidence in financial fraud cases.”

I looked at Emily, who was already nodding enthusiastically before I could ask her opinion about being interviewed on television.

“Sandra, schedule it for tomorrow afternoon. And, Sandra, see if Amy Thompson can participate, too. Her case has become one of our most successful recoveries.”

Two days later, I was sitting in the Channel 7 studio with Emily and Amy, watching both girls explain to reporter Janet Morrison how they documented their grandfather’s financial deception with the matter-of-fact precision that children bring to observable facts.

“Emily, you were eight when you first realized your grandfather was hiding things from your grandmother. What made you decide to pay attention to adult conversations?” Janet asked.

“Because Grandma Cathy was sad and I didn’t understand why Grandpa was having secret meetings with people who told me not to mention them. When adults tell kids to keep secrets from other adults, that usually means something bad is happening.”

“Amy, your notebook documentation helped recover over a million dollars for your grandmother. How did you know what information was important?”

“Emily’s story taught me that kids see things grown-ups miss because grown-ups think we’re not paying attention. But we are paying attention, especially when family members are acting weird or sad.”

Janet Morrison turned to me.

“Mrs. Gillian, your foundation has now documented over 50 cases where children’s observations provided crucial evidence of financial fraud. What does this tell us about family dynamics during divorce proceedings?”

“It tells us that people who commit financial fraud often underestimate everyone around them—their spouses and their grandchildren,” I said. “They assume that being kind or trusting means being stupid, and they assume that being young means being unobservant.”

“What advice would you give to other grandmothers who might be facing similar situations?”

continued on next page

For complete cooking times, go to the next page or click the Open button (>), and don't forget to SHARE with your Facebook friends.