“Gentle parenting.”
I had another name for it, but I tried to keep that to myself.
Whenever someone in the family tried to correct Jeremy, Kelsey would immediately step in with the same breezy line.
“You’re interfering with his development.”
She said it when Jeremy dumped a plate of pasta into our cousin’s lap at Thanksgiving because he wanted to sit at the adult table.
She said it when he knocked over a display at a hardware store and walked away without looking back.
Eventually, the rest of the family stopped saying anything. It was easier to ignore Jeremy’s behavior than deal with Kelsey’s lectures afterward.
One afternoon I told her quietly, “Kelsey, your son is going to seriously hurt someone one day.”
She laughed.
“You sound like Mom,” she said, like that was some kind of insult.
The moment that really defined everything happened at our grandmother’s eightieth birthday party.
My mom had ordered a beautiful three-layer vanilla cake from the local bakery. She’d spent two weeks choosing the design: white fondant, yellow roses, and Grandma’s name written in gold icing.
Jeremy wanted chocolate.
He said it loudly. Twice.
When nobody rushed to replace the cake, he grabbed the serving spatula and shoved the entire top tier off the stand.
The cake hit the wall and slid slowly down Grandma’s floral wallpaper in a sticky yellow streak.
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